Thoughts from the Heart.

When your significant other feels like giving up, make them remember that you love them:

• More than the arguments
• More than the differences
• More than the efforts
• More than the irritation
• More than the reasons not to
• More than the mistakes
• More than what you've been through
• More than everything
• More than the constant blows
• More than every mistake
• More than the bad days
• More than everything in between
• More than the problems

And:

• that he/she is the only one for you.
• that you will choose him/her everyday... in any circumstance
• that there's no reason not to feel secured
• that they're enough
• that he/she's the only one you wanna get your shit together with
• that you are committed
• help them feel better
• be with them during those times because that's when they need you the most
• comfort him/her, show that you care
• have faith in each other
• be willing to sacrifice

Love them even on the bad days, not just the good ones. Remember the sweet memories. Read old messages. Remember why you fell inlove with them. Remember how much you want to be with them during those times you can't. Remember how long you waited just to have them. Think about how you will be if you ever lose him/her. Forgive mistakes. Realize how much you mean to your partner. Never make them feel like they can't reach out to you. Hear them out. 

Compromise. Be committed. Be consistent. Choose your partner in every way possible. Be the best for both of you. Do everything you can to prove that they're the only one you want to be with. Don't make them feel like they have competition. Be fair.If you can do something for your friends, you should be able to it for them too. Let them know what they should. Don't let a day go by without telling them how much you love them, because you'll never know when it's too late. 

"Real love is always chaotic. You lose control, you lose perspective. You lose the ability to protect yourself. The greater the love, the greater the chaos. It's a given and that's the secret." 

Jonathan Carroll

"The toughest heartbreak a man will face, is not caused by a woman, but his bad choices and how they affect his woman." @gentlemenhood

"It's so hard to find someone who only has eyes for you. Eyes that don't wander, a mind that is certain. People will spit out the words I love you yet harbor some sort of lustful attraction to others. They'll claim to love you and yet entertain the idea of someone else. If you should find someone who is mentally, physically and or emotionally loyal to you. Appreciate everything they represent because people like them are so fucking hard to find."  r.h. sin

You deserve to receive as much love as you can give.

--- From someone who isn't perfect. who learned from the hard ways, who's been through a lot, who learned from other people............... blah blah blah